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Every student’s college journey is different. Some families come to me at the very beginning, when college still feels abstract and far away. Others find me in the thick of senior year, overwhelmed and unsure where to turn. Wherever you are in the process, we start there — and we figure it out together.

Here’s how I can help.

The goal isn’t a long list. It’s the right list — schools where your student can genuinely see themselves, succeed academically, and afford to attend. We slow down, ask the right questions, and build something intentional rather than reactive.

We’ll talk about what matters to your student beyond rankings and reputation. We’ll look at campus culture, size, location, academic programs, and financial reality. And we’ll make sure the final list has a real range — schools to dream about, schools that are a strong fit, and schools where admission is likely and the value is real.

Here’s something most college planning conversations skip: before a student can choose the right college, it helps enormously to have some sense of who they are and where they might be headed. And here’s something most families need to hear out loud — not knowing what you want to major in before college is completely normal. Most students change their major at least once. Many don’t declare until their sophomore year. The goal isn’t to have it all figured out. The goal is to arrive at college with enough self-knowledge to start making good decisions.

That’s where V.I.P.S. comes in.

V.I.P.S. is a career development framework used by Career Services offices at colleges and universities across the country. Most students don’t encounter it until they’re already on campus, often after they’ve already chosen a major, declared the wrong one, or found themselves sitting in a career center feeling lost. Working through V.I.P.S. in high school means your student arrives at college having already done that foundational work — with a head start on the self-knowledge their college peers are just beginning to build.

Over a series of sessions, students complete a set of guided assessments — not tests with right or wrong answers, but tools designed to surface what’s already there. Each letter stands for something essential:

  • V — Values. What matters most to you? What do you need in your work and your life to feel like what you’re doing is meaningful?
  • I — Interests. What pulls your attention? What topics, activities, or problems make you lose track of time?
  • P — Personality. How do you naturally operate — with people, with information, with decisions? What environments bring out the best in you?
  • S — Strengths & Skills. What do you do well, sometimes without even realizing it? What have others always noticed about you?

The assessments unfold over time rather than all at once, because a student’s answers can shift — and those shifts are part of the conversation. We’re not looking for a single result to pin a career to. We’re building a picture, layer by layer, of a student who is still becoming.

What the results give us is a foundation for real conversations about career awareness, development, and exploration. Those conversations don’t just point toward a major. They help students walk into the college search knowing what they’re looking for and why — and they help students answer the question every application and interview eventually asks: Who are you, and what do you want?

Most teenagers haven’t been given the time or the tools to answer that well. V.I.P.S. gives them both.

The application process has more moving parts than most families expect — multiple platforms, overlapping deadlines, recommendation letters, activity lists, and fine print that’s easy to miss. I help students stay organized, stay on track, and make sure nothing falls through the cracks.

Whether your student is working through the Common App, the Coalition App, or a school’s own system, we’ll move through it together — step by step, deadline by deadline — so the process feels manageable instead of overwhelming.

The college essay is the one place in the entire application where your student gets to be a full human being — not a GPA, not a test score, not a list of activities. It’s an opportunity, and it deserves real attention.

I work with students to find the story only they can tell. We brainstorm, we draft, we revise — and through all of it, I’m listening for the student’s voice, not imposing one. The goal is an essay that a college admissions reader remembers, because it sounds genuinely like the person who wrote it.

We work on the personal statement, supplemental essays, short answers, and activity descriptions. Every word counts, and we treat it that way.

Standardized testing has changed a lot in recent years, and the landscape can be confusing. Test-optional policies, test-free schools, the shift to the digital SAT — there’s a lot to sort through. I help families cut through the noise and make informed, strategic decisions.

We’ll figure out whether testing makes sense for your student’s specific list, build a realistic testing timeline, identify fee waiver eligibility, and make sure students with documented disabilities know their rights when it comes to accommodations. No guesswork. Just a clear plan.

This might be the most important conversation families aren’t having early enough. The sticker price of a college is rarely what a family actually pays — but understanding the difference requires knowing how to read financial aid award letters, compare offers, and ask the right questions before your student falls in love with a school that isn’t financially realistic.

I help families navigate the FAFSA, the CSS Profile, and the financial aid process from start to finish. We talk about need-based aid and merit scholarships, what the award letter is actually saying, and what questions to ask when something doesn’t add up. We also talk honestly about all the pathways — including community college, transfer plans, and gap year options — because the right choice financially is always worth considering.

No family should be surprised by a bill they didn’t see coming.

Getting Ready for What Comes Next

Submitting the last application is a relief. But the work isn’t quite done. Once the acceptance letters arrive, families face a new set of decisions — and a new set of emotions. I stay with students through all of it.

We’ll compare financial aid offers side by side, talk through the final decision, and make sure your student understands what they’re committing to. We’ll also talk about what the transition to college actually looks like — academically, socially, and emotionally — so students arrive ready, not just enrolled.

Next Steps

Not sure where to start? That’s exactly what the first conversation is for. Reach out to schedule a free consultation — no pressure, just a chance to talk about where your student is and where they want to go.

Speaking & Group Presentations

I speak with schools, parent groups, faith communities, and community organizations about college planning, financial aid, and the importance of walking alongside young people as they navigate some of the biggest transitions of their lives. Presentations are tailored to your audience — whether they’re eighth graders just beginning to think about the future or senior parents trying to make sense of financial aid season.

If your group could benefit from this conversation, I’d love to bring it to you.

May 2021 Update

Professional development continues to be a major factor in my work life. With physical visits to campuses curtailed during 2020 (most are re-opening for in-person visits), I spend about 7 -10 hours per week on virtual visits with college admission counselors. The IECA, one of my professional organizations, regularly conducts College Conversations, an hour-long presentation with time built in for Q & A. To date, members of IECA had sessions with the colleges on the chart. Additionally, I added to this list by facilitating sessions in my capacity as the college counselor for the Montessori School of Raleigh where, along with the students, we learned more about UNC Charlotte, UNC Wilmington, the College of Wooster, Queens University of Charlotte, Muhlenberg, Elon, Western Carolina, North Carolina Central, the University of Alabama and the University of Alabama at Birmingham. Did you know UNC Wilmington has a major in Coastal Engineering or that Western Carolina (along with UNC Pembroke and Elizabeth City State) is a NC Promise institution? A NC Promise school’s in-state tuition is $500 while non-residents pay $2500 per semester.

Our virtual world allows for hours upon hours of accessible college information sessions. I had to step back and limit myself to a reasonable number of hours of “college visits”.

I challenge my students regularly to move beyond their comfort zone and during the height of the pandemic, I stretched myself way beyond my level of comfort. I am one of 14 co-authors of Becoming The Shero, an anthology depicting the journeys of entrepreneurs at different stages of their lives. My story is in the Embracing the Pivot section.

Another way I stay current is through my new position at Providence College. As of August 2020, I am the College Supervisor for the School Counseling Program. What does the college supervisor do? I supervise the students in the program during their 2-semester internship at a school, where they are directly supervised by their Site Supervisor, a certified professional school counselor. It is the student teaching equivalent for school counseling.

Reading is a daily pleasure for me. Here are nine books (not in chronological order) that helped me to educate myself about current events and issues of social justice:

  • Caste: The Origins of Our Discontents ~ Isabel Wilkerson
  • How to Be An Anti-Racist ~ Ibram X. Kendi
  • Stamped From The Beginning ~ Ibram X. Kendi
  • I’m Still Here ~ Austin Channing Brown
  • The Color Of Law ~ Richard Rothstein
  • We Want To Do More Than Survive ~ Bettina Love
  • Down Along With That Devil’s Bones ~ Connor Towne O’Neill
  • Interrupting Racism: Equity and Social Justice in School Counseling ~ Rebecca Atkins & Alicia Oglesby
  • Why Are All The Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria? And Other Conversations About Race ~ Beverly Daniel Tatum, Ph.D.

To stay up-to-date on trends in college, career and paying for college, see my list of books under the “Parent Resources” tab.

I challenge my students to be lifelong readers. I am practicing what I preach. What are you reading today?

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